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A breakdown of sex toys.
There’s a lot of different kinds of sex toys out there. So I thought I’d break some of it down for you, to help separate some of the toys, what they are, what they’re typically used for, and how they’re … Continued
What makes sex good?
Now, I’m quite lucky in that I haven’t had much “bad” sex. Basically, for me, any sex is good sex so long as it’s consensual and safe and all that. So for me, a lot of it is a chosen … Continued
To laugh or not to laugh…
The last time my boyfriend and I had sex we enjoyed a lot of laughing. So much laughing i was wondering if we were going to get pat it and actually get busy! It was fun though. We poked at … Continued
Making time for sex…
Something I’ve noticed is that no matter how in the mood you are, sometimes there just isn’t time. Whether it’s chores, work, familial obligations or getting together with friends it seems like there’s always something in the way of finding … Continued
Intimacy
Intimacy is something that I think is sadly lacking in most relationships nowadays. So often when I’ve been a part of a conversation about intimacy, be it a face-to-face discussion or online, people typically say “Ohh, we have a good … Continued
Coming In From Behind
It wasn’t long before I met my boyfriend that I began experimenting with anal play. I was quite nervous, but thankfully had a really great anal probe to start with that was not intimidating and was a great size for … Continued
Vibrator.com now carries Brandie’s favorite lube!!!
I’m so excited to let y’all know that Vibrator.com now carries my favorite line of personal lubricant; Climax Bursts! YAYY!! There are several varieties of it: Aphrodesiac , Cooling (my personal favorite), Warming , Anal and some of the best … Continued
Plus Sized Sex
So often when reading about sex and sexuality and sex toys and all that, there are many issues which are addressed. Different sexual orientations. Issues resulting from sexual abuse. Transgender issues. It’s very rare though, to see someone talking about … Continued
Sex toys and Mom
So, recently my mother came to visit. We hadn’t seen each other in almost a year so it was really exciting! Thing is; I think I spent more time finding my sex toys and porn and hiding it all than … Continued
Sex drives
So, my boyfriend and I used to have a lot of sex. A lot. Every day, sometimes more than once a day, for an hour or two at a time. It was incredible! He loves to see where my limits … Continued
Just Talk About It
So a couple nights ago my boyfriend and I were talking. I honestly can’t remember how the subject came up, but we ended up telling stories from our past, which I love; even if it involves discussion about exes, sex … Continued
What’s normal in bed?
Something that I’ve noticed with many, many people is a difficulty in accepting one’s sexual desires. So often we can get hung up whether or not something is “normal,” or what so-and-so would think if they knew we like to … Continued
Five Ways to Get Your Body Ready for Sex this Summer
Diet and nutrition programs seem to be everywhere lately. I know of at least three “Biggest Loser” style contests on the Web right now, and those are just ones I’ve heard about from friends without doing a Google search. Summer’s … Continued
Sex in a Heat Wave
Newsflash: It’s hot. Really, really hot. The upside to this, of course, is that you get to see girls clad in very short-shorts and tight tank tops or, if you live in the right area, those sexy little beach cover-ups. … Continued
Three Tips for Talking About Sex
Dr. Laura Berman states that 15 % of all married couples don’t have sex. Often these couples started out in happy relationships with healthy sex lives. But the demands of children, money woes and day-to-day life eventually got in the … Continued
Seven Sexy New Year’s Resolutions
It’s the first full week of the New Year. That means it’s not too late to make a New Year’s Resolution! I hope no one has actually broken any of theirs yet, unless they were the kind meant to be … Continued
Did Oprah’s Flight Attendants Have Sex on the Plane?
Oprah’s making headlines again, but it’s not about weight loss, bestselling books or giving away lots of money (although it may turn out that way.) According to US Magazine, a flight attendant on Oprah Winfrey’s private jet filed a lawsuit … Continued
The Link Between Sex and Death
As many readers and frequent customers to this website know, we are based in New York. Perhaps that’s why, eight years after the September 11 terrorist attacks, I feel compelled to write something – a memory, a tribute, some acknowledgment … Continued
The Art and Craft of Writing Erotica
As a professional sex blogger, my job is to keep readers entertained and informed. In some posts, I seek simply to instruct, sharing an array of tips and tricks you can employ in your own bedroom. But in my spare … Continued