Squirting: Three Secrets to Female Ejaculation

fountain 3201 Squirting: Three Secrets to Female EjaculationI once saw a porn scene where it looked like a woman had Niagara Falls coming out of her vagina. I couldn’t help but think this was some form of special effects, even though the flick was relatively low budget. Until the other night.

Yes, female ejaculation of massive proportions is possible — and fun! Although it gets a bit messy and a towel or two is highly recommended for easy clean-up.

If you’ve never heard of female ejaculation, there’s an interesting side to sex you may be missing. But what is it, exactly? Essentially, it’s when a woman “squirts” clear fluid from the vaginal area … it comes from the urethra and the areas around it, specifically, the paraurethral glands. The first time many women squirt, they think they may have peed. But this fluid is clear and odorless and a somewhat different consistency than urine. Some studies note that some urine exists in the fluid.

Like the great debate over whether the g-spot exists or not, people debate over whether women can really ejaculate. This seems like a silly debate — especially if you’ve ever experienced squirting. It can happen.

How can you do it? Follow these steps and have fun practicing!

Play on your own at first. One of the major impediments to female ejaculation is embarrassment. Will our partner be grossed out? Will he think we peed on him? Since releasing your inhibitions is one of the keys to a great sex life — and this aspect is no different — practice on yourself first. You may first try masturbation in the shower, where clean up won’t be an issue.

Use g-spot stimulation. Many people believe female ejaculation occurs through g-spot stimulation. Although yours truly can squirt without such stimulation, it certainly doesn’t hurt. When you feel yourself cumming through g-spot stimulation, do kegels to intensify the orgasm, pushing out forcefully as you release the kegel. At first, you may just feel a few drops of liquid, but this can turn into a full-blown ejaculation. Ejaculation can also occur during clitoral stimulation.

Relax and focus. If you’re stressed about: “Will I or won’t I?” Guess what? You won’t. Relax. Focus on squirting but don’t stress, because you’ll tighten up. If it doesn’t work the first few times you try, don’t give up. Keep focusing and practicing.

Why Would You Want to Squirt?

You may wonder why you want to introduce this element into your sex life. Maybe you don’t, and that’s fine too. But if you’re interested, you’re opening yourself up to a new level of excitement. (Plus, many sex partners find it really hot!) When it finally happens, you’ll experience the most unbelievably intense orgasm of your life. The sensation of release is unlike any other when you can actually see and feel something coming out.

Facts, Info and More Questions about Squirting

- Squirting does not necessarily come with orgasm — it can happen before, after or during.

- Women squirt different amounts, from a few, barely detectable drops to a full-blown geyser effect.

- Yes, porn stars can (and do) fake ejaculation — usually by drinking a lot of water and then urinating on cue.

- There are no solid figures on the number of women who ejaculate. Questionnaire surveys found between 35 and 50 percent of respondents report squirting. Other studies found the numbers between 10 percent and 65 percent.

Keep in mind, once you find the right position and stimulation to provoke squirting, it may not happen every time. But if it’s something you and your partner enjoy, it’s definitely fun when it happens!

11 Responses to “Squirting: Three Secrets to Female Ejaculation”

  1. loretta

    I actually experienced this for the first time with a new man in my life. I was worried at first that I had urinated on him and me but found out very quickly from reading cosmopolitan ( thank goodness for that magazine) that it was a g-spot orgasm. I have them all the time with my man and it is wonderful. I have never experienced that with anyone else and let me tell you it is an amazing experience!!!

  2. kkfulp

    The first time this happened to me, I was shocked. I had not heard of it before. My partner had. He was wowed.

    I was overwhelmed with how good it felt. Yet, I to thought that I had peed – because of how much there was – although peeing Never felt like that!

    Since then, he has worked out how to make it happen almost every single time through finger manipulation – usually multiple times during one session. It gets him off almost as much as the actual act.

  3. Desiree Sweet

    Thanks for sharing your own experiences! kkfulp and Loretta, That’s impressive. Maybe it *does* become the norm for many women once they get started. I have a friend who squirts All the time, too. For me, it’s just when I’m pregnant! Hubby loves it though and we will definitely work on eliciting that reaction when I’m not.

  4. D Sweet

    Porn Aggregator -
    Yes. Find out what she likes and what works for her. Remember, not every woman can do it. It’s apparently quite random.

    Also, don’t pressure. Help her to relax. And let her know how cool you think it would be (to get rid of those hangups) but without pressure.

    Finally, when she does it, encourage it. I don’t know why but once my husband revealed how cool he thought it was, I really started letting loose. that’s also when I decided to write this post. LOL

  5. Desiree Sweet

    Mike,
    Read the comment above where I provided some tips to Porn Aggregator. Also, ask her. :) Really, I’m serious. Find out what she REALLY likes and what may elicit that reaction. A good rule is usual gspot stimulation.
    Also, remember, not every woman can do it. Don’t pressure her or be disappointed if she can’t. Find something else equally cool to do. LOL

  6. Sarah

    I do this and it is wonderful not only with yourself but with your man, it is the most wonderful and sensual thing you will ever do I love it and recommend it to everyone.

  7. Squirting Orgasms | Female Orgasm Video

    [...] about female ejaculations — “squirting” as the phenomena is often called. … Access Doc The G-spot RevisitedMany women insist these new squirting orgasms are the cat's meow. Questioners …s of Squirting Orgasms" title="images of Squirting Orgasms" [...]

Leave a Reply