A Man’s Guide to Using Vibrators and Dildos

What should
guys know about using vibrators and/or dildos? Well, for starters, they aren’t
just for girls. Second, they aren’t designed to replace you but rather to
accent your very best qualities! Don’t be afraid to get up close and personal
with them and find out for yourself exactly what makes them tick. That way, you
will be well on your way to satisfying your lover in all sorts of sinful new
ways!

Let’s start
with dildos… though they might seem like more of a “threat,” they are easier to
manage if done properly. And being endowed with your very own built-in “dildo,”
you are sure to handle this with ease. Try thinking of the dildo as an
extension of yourself, another appendage per se.

Start slow
and easy, using the dildo to taunt and tease all over your lover’s body.
Whisper plenty of sweet nothings and remind her exactly what you plan on doing
with your new toy, but be sure that she knows you are in full control. Nothing
happens until you are ready! You’ll have her begging for it in no time.

As things
heat up between you, slide the dildo down between her thighs and nudge it just
barely inside her lips. Make her beg for more, but give it to her as slowly as
you possibly can. When you are finally engaged in the peak of your passion,
take her from behind and plunge yourself deep inside her. Use her own juices to
moisten the dildo for the final climax.

Thoroughly
lube her anus with her own juices plus some added lubrication while you thrust
in and out of her. Use the dildo to tease her bottom, edging it just a little
further inside her with every stroke. If she resists, tell her to push against
your thrusts and her sphincter will relax. Once she is fully relaxed, slide the
dildo all the way in and then take your cues from her as to the motion and
momentum that will bring you both to ecstasy.

Oh, and
don’t forget… the next time, it’s her turn to wield the dildo.

 

After
you’re comfortable with the dildo, it’s time to move on to the vibrator. This
can be even more fun for both of you. Start off with a full-body massage… using
the vibe to alternately relax and titillate your lover from head to toe.
Gradually hone in on the more sensitive spots, perhaps starting with her
breasts before moving steadily downward.

As you
close in on her love box, just remember that you can easily use the vibe
exactly the same way as the dildo, plus you can do even more! Some vibes and
dildos are designed to intentionally run up against your lover’s G-spot, and
experimenting with that little feature can be loads of fun. Just play around,
being careful not to leave the vibe on the same spot for more than a second or
so… sensitive areas get too
sensitive way too quickly.

But never
fear… your partner will give you all the clues and guidance you need as long as
you’re paying attention!

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