Beginner’s Tips to Roleplay

Ever fancied acting up in the bedroom? A lot of people fantasize about getting in costume and playing a part – but often we worry we might just feel too damn silly. For the faint of heart, here are few tips to help you carry off sexual roleplay with style…

First of all, think of a scene. What turns you on? There are practically infinite variations of roleplay scenes: teacher and sexy school girldominatrix and slave, naughty police officer and bad driver, sexy pirate and sailor – the only limit is your imagination. Any scene will involve some kind of power play, perhaps a punishment or a treat? For inspiration, you only need to look to your favorite movies or sexy books and find a scenario that really gets your blood heated. The planning stage calls for some kinky daydreaming.

Getting your partner to play could be a lot easier than you think. If you feel very shy about asking them to get involved in your fantasy, how about hand writing an invitation? Or raise the subject while you’re having sex – try whispering what you want in their ear at a crucial moment and encourage them to join in with imagining the scene. That way both of you can explore the fantasy before you take the plunge, and you can work out what your partner will enjoy too.

Remember to keep your sense of humor to hand. You may feel silly dressing up in a costume – but blushes and giggles can be a big turn on for your partner. If you’re willing to make the effort of setting a scene, they’re likely to be bowled over by your daring and touched by your shyness. If you’re worried about making a fool of yourself, remember that games are a way of playing the fool – enjoy yourself!

Props and costumes aren’t essential for roleplay, but they can come in handy. Dressing up can help you put on a persona and get into character. A sexy outfit could be enough to give your partner a pleasant surprise, but how about adding a few little details to flesh out the scene? You may want to ‘dress’ a room for the purpose to create the perfect romantic experience before enticing your lover into your scene, and props will give you a chance to focus on the story as well as providing you with a distraction if you get nervous.

Whether you’re playing a sexy maid or stripper, hot firefighter or naughty nun, waiter or hot cop or sexy nurse, let go, have fun and look forward to the encore!

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